因此，我最终设法通过外部方的建议，通过使用集合视图来解决此问题

请参见下面的代码：

        <CollectionView
            HeightRequest="250"
            x:Name="OptionsCollectionView"
            ItemsSource="{Binding SelectionOptions}"
            VerticalOptions="Start"
            SelectionMode="Single">

            <CollectionView.ItemTemplate>
                <DataTemplate>
                    <yummy:PancakeView
                        x:Name="optionPancake"
                        Padding="20">
                        <yummy:PancakeView.Border>
                            <yummy:Border
                                Color="{StaticResource CollectionViewBorderColor}"
                                Thickness="2" />
                        </yummy:PancakeView.Border>
                        <StackLayout
                        Orientation="Horizontal">

                            <Label
                                x:Name="optionLabel"
                                Text="{Binding Option}"
                                FontSize="15"
                                FontFamily="EuclidCircularASemibold"
                                TextColor="{StaticResource SubHeadingColor}"
                                FontAttributes="Bold" />

                        </StackLayout>
                    </yummy:PancakeView>
                </DataTemplate>
            </CollectionView.ItemTemplate>
        </CollectionView>

下面的代码用于在选择一个项目时设置视觉状态组的样式：

    <Style TargetType="yummy:PancakeView">
        <Setter Property="VisualStateManager.VisualStateGroups">
            <VisualStateGroupList>
                <VisualStateGroup>
                    <VisualState Name="Normal"/>
                    <VisualState Name="Selected">
                        <VisualState.Setters>

                            <Setter
                                Property="BackgroundColor"
                                Value="{StaticResource FrameSelectedColor}"/>

                            <Setter                                        
                                Property="yummy:PancakeView.Border"
                                Value="{yummy:BorderMarkup  Color={StaticResource SelectedLabelColor}, Thickness='2'}"/>

                            <Setter TargetName="optionLabel"
                                    Property="Label.TextColor"
                                    Value="{StaticResource SelectedLabelColor}"/>

                            <Setter Property="CornerRadius"
                                    Value="5"/>

                        </VisualState.Setters>
                    </VisualState>


                </VisualStateGroup>
            </VisualStateGroupList>
        </Setter>
    </Style>